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“I once heard an exec say, "If you don't ask for it, we can't give it to you." We can't go through our lives just being grateful for everything.”

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Ellie Kemper
Ellie Kemper

Ellie Kemper is an American actress known for her role as Pam Beesly in the television show 'The Office'. She has showcased her comedic talent in various projects, often taking on leading or significant roles. more

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