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“When men and women across the country reported how happy they felt, researchers found that jugglers were happier than others. By and large, the more roles, the greater the happiness. Parents were happier than nonparents, and workers were happier than nonworkers. Married people were much happier than unmarried people. Married people were generally at the top of the emotional totem pole.”

Quote by Faye J Crosby

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Faye J Crosby

Faye J Crosby, born in 1947, is an accomplished author known for her diverse works and distinctive literary style, characterized by deep insight and unique narrative techniques. more

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