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“Almost all the voices in history have been men, but on this one question of gender, men don't talk about it. This has nothing to do with women; it has to do with men.”

Quote by Stephen Marche

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Stephen Marche is a Canadian writer born in 1976. His work spans across various genres including novels, non-fiction, and criticism, known for his unique perspective and profound insights into contemporary social issues. more

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