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“Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.”

Quote by M. Scott Peck

Book:The Road Less Traveled, 25th Anniversary Edition: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values, and Spiritual Growth

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The Road Less Traveled, 25th Anniversary Edition: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values, and Spiritual Growth

This book is a classic in the field of self-help and psychology, offering readers a profound exploration of the human condition. It delves into the complexities of love, the importance of traditional values, and the journey towards spiritual growth. Written by a renowned psychiatrist, it provides practical advice and thought-provoking reflections on life's challenges and opportunities. more

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M. Scott Peck was an American psychiatrist and writer, best known for his book 'The Road Less Traveled', which delves into themes of personal growth, psychotherapy, and the human mind. His writing style has been widely appreciated, and his works have had a profound impact on the fields of psychology and philosophy. more

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