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“It's time to hand back responsibility for being an adult to everyone in the situation. You're not helping anybody by staying in a romantic relationship that isn't good for you or staying in a work relationship that sucks or staying in a friendship where you hate the other person. That's not helping anyone.”

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Sara Benincasa
Sara Benincasa

Sara Benincasa is an American comedian known for her unique humor style and candid self-analysis. Born on October 25, 1980, she has been active in the comedy scene since the early 2000s. more

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