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“Every family has a story that it tells itself, that it passes on to the children and grandchildren. The story grows over the years, mutates, some parts are sharpened, others dropped, and there is often debate about what really happened. But even with these different sides of the same story, there is still agreement that this is the family story. And in the absence of other narratives, it becomes the flagpole that the family hangs its identity from.”

Quote by A.M. Homes

Work

The Mistress's Daughter: A Memoir

This memoir delves into the author's experiences growing up in a complex family dynamic, offering insights into the challenges of navigating family secrets and the quest for self-discovery. more

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A.M. Homes
A.M. Homes

A.M. Homes is an American writer born on December 18, 1961. Her works span across novels, short story collections, and essays, known for her unique narrative style and profound social insights. more

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