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“The sofa is a mountain to climb, a valley for sleeping in, a place of ambush for surprise attacks on passing parents.”

Quote by Joy Kogawa

Book:Obasan

Work

Obasan

Obasan is a poignant narrative that delves into the experiences of a Japanese-Canadian woman during the Second World War. The story is narrated from the perspective of a woman named Emily, who grapples with the loss of her mother, the internment of her family, and the complexities of her own identity. The novel is a powerful exploration of themes such as survival, resilience, and the enduring impact of historical events on individuals and communities. more

Author

Joy Kogawa
Joy Kogawa

Joy Kogawa is a Canadian poet born on June 6, 1935. Her work is deeply influenced by her personal experiences, particularly her internment in Japanese Canadian internment camps during World War II. more

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