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That's not what I meant!: how conversational style makes or breaks your relations with others

The book delves into the intricacies of communication, examining how different conversational approaches can either strengthen or damage interpersonal connections. more

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Deborah Tannen
Deborah Tannen

Deborah Tannen, born on June 7, 1945, is an accomplished American linguist and professor. Her research focuses on the relationship between gender and language, particularly the differences in communication between men and women. Tannen's book 'You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation' has become a bestseller, profoundly impacting the public's understanding of gender communication differences. more

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