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“One day, a woman found herself standing at Heaven's gate. The angels' only question to her was, "Zusai, why weren't you Zusai?" Within that simple question lies the heart of all our soul work. If you are David, why aren't you fully David? If you are Susan, why aren't you completely Susan? We are here on Earth to become who we are meant to be.”

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Angeles Arrien
Angeles Arrien

Angeles Arrien (b. 1940) is a prominent anthropologist recognized for her extensive work in cross-cultural studies. She has dedicated her career to exploring the similarities and differences between various cultures around the world, with a focus on the values and beliefs that unite and divide them. more

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