“It was never in my heart to slight any man, but only that man should be kept in his place and not sit in the room of God.” Quote by Anne Hutchinson
“Therefore, take heed how you proceed against me; for I know that for this you go about to do to me, God will ruin you and your posterity, and this whole state.” KnowsStatesWholeGods WillRuinsPosterityHeed Author:Anne Hutchinson
“Many working families are both prisoners and architects of the time bind in which they find themselves.” TimePrisonerArchitect Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“Most women work one shift at the office or factory and a 'second shift' at home.” HomeOfficeFactoriesHousework Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“Each marriage bears the footprints of economic and cultural trends which originate far outside marriage.” MarriageEconomicBearsTrendsFootprint Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“To televisionize any serious problem, the program directors face the task of making the message 'go down smooth' until the audience is delivered to the commercial.” ProblemFacesAudienceSeriousDirectorsMessagesProgramTasksSmooth Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“Even when couples share more equitably in the work at home, women do two-thirds of the daily jobs at home, like cooking and cleaning up--jobs that fix them into a rigid routine. Most women cook dinner and most men change the oil in the family car. But dinner needs to be prepared every evening around six o'clock, whereas the car oil needs to be changed every six months, any day around that time, any time that day.... Men thus have more control over when they make their contributions than women do.” MenNeedsTwoHomeJobsWomenShareCarChangedMonthsCoupleSixThirdsCookingPreparedDinnerOilEveningCooksClockContributionRoutineBe PreparedCleaningSix MonthsHouseworkCleaning Up Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“As long as the "woman's work" that some men do is socially devalued, as long as it is defined as woman's work, as long as it's tacked onto a "regular" work day, men who share it are likely to develop the same jagged mouth and frazzled hair as the coffee-mug mom. The image of the new man is like the image of the supermom: it obscures the strain.” MenLongWomenShareHairMomMouthsCoffeeDefinedStrainMugWork DayCoffee Mug Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“The "female culture" has shifted more rapidly than the "male culture"; the image of the go-get 'em woman has yet to be fully matched by the image of the let's take-care-of-the-kids- together man. More important, over the last thirty years, men's underlying feelings about taking responsibility at home have changed much less than women's feelings have changed about forging some kind of identity at work.” MenYearsKindImportantFeelingsHomeCareKidsTogetherLastsCultureWomenResponsibilityIdentityChangedFemaleMalesTake CareThirtyEmsTaking ResponsibilityThirty YearsMatchedForging Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“Most women without children spend much more time than men on housework; with children, they devote more time to both housework andchild care. Just as there is a wage gap between men and women in the workplace, there is a "leisure gap" between them at home. Most women work one shift at the office or factory and a "second shift" at home.” MenChildrenHomeCareWomenWorkOfficeMen And WomenGapsMore TimeFactoriesLeisureWorkplaceHousework Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild
“As motherhood as a "private enterprise" declines and more mothers rely on the work of lower-paid specialists, the value accorded the work of mothering (not the value of children) has declined for women, making it all the harder for men to take it up.” MenChildrenMotherValuesHarderPaidMotherhoodRelyEnterpriseDeclineSpecialistsMotheringPrivate Enterprise Author:Arlie Russell Hochschild