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Quote by Gavin de Becker

“Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated by a romantic prospect while most women fear rape and death.”

Quote by Gavin de Becker

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Gavin de Becker
Gavin de Becker

Gavin de Becker is a renowned author and security expert, known for his work on personal and public safety, as well as psychological tactics. His books, 'The Gift of Fear' and 'Fearless', have gained widespread popularity around the world and have been translated into multiple languages. more

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