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“Trust in someone means that we no longer have to protect ourselves. We believe we will not be hurt or harmed by the other, at least not deliberately. We trust his or her good intentions, though we know we might be hurt by the way circumstances play out between us. We might say that hurt happens; it’s a given of life. Harm is inflicted; it’s a choice some people make.”

Quote by David Richo

Work

Daring to Trust: Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy

This book explores the importance of trust and intimacy in personal relationships, offering insights and strategies for building and maintaining strong emotional bonds. more

Author

David Richo
David Richo

David Richo is an American writer born in 1940. His works primarily focus on personal growth, spiritual cultivation, and interpersonal relationships, which are well-received by readers. more

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