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“The people who help us grow toward true self offer unconditional love, neither judging us to be deficient nor trying to force us to change but accepting us exactly as we are. And yet this unconditional love does not lead us to rest on our laurels. Instead, it surrounds us with a charged force field that makes us want to grow from the inside out - a force field that is safe enough to take the risks and endure the failures that growth requires.”

Quote by Parker J. Palmer

Book:A Hidden Wholeness: The Journey Toward an Undivided Life
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A Hidden Wholeness: The Journey Toward an Undivided Life

This book delves into the idea of wholeness, examining how individuals can strive for a harmonious life that integrates various aspects of their being. more

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Parker J. Palmer
Parker J. Palmer

Parker J. Palmer is an American author and educator renowned for his works in the fields of personal and community wisdom, emphasizing how education can promote the wholeness of individuals and societies. more

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