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“Somewhere here I want to bring in a learning which has been most rewarding, because it makes me feel so deeply akin to others. I can word it this way. What is most personal is most general. There have been times when in talking with students or staff, or in my writing, I have expressed myself in ways so personal that I have felt I was expressing an attitude which it was probable no one else could understand, because it was so uniquely my own…. In these instances I have almost invariably found that the very feeling which has seemed to me most private, most personal, and hence most incomprehensible by others, has turned out to be an expression for which there is a resonance in many other people. It has led me to believe that what is most personal and unique in each one of us is probably the very element which would, if it were shared or expressed, speak most deeply to others. This has helped me to understand artists and poets as people who have dared to express the unique in themselves.”

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On becoming a person: a therapist's view of psychotherapy

This book outlines the philosophical and psychological framework developed by Rogers for what became known as person-centered therapy. The work explores the conditions he considered essential for therapeutic change, including empathy, unconditional positive regard, and genuineness from the therapist. Rogers reflects on the nature of the self and the process through which individuals can develop greater authenticity and personal fulfillment. The text draws on his clinical experience and offers insights into the therapeutic process from the perspective of someone who fundamentally changed how psychotherapy is practiced and understood. more

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