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“When [our secrets] are sad and hurtful secrets, like my father's death, we can in a way honor the hurt by letting ourselves feel it as we never let ourselves feel it before, and then, having felt it, by laying it aside; we can start to take care of ourselves the way we take care of people we love.”

Quote by Frederick Buechner

Work

Telling Secrets

This book delves into the psychological and social implications of revealing or concealing personal information, examining the consequences and motivations behind such actions across different life stages and relationships. more

Author

Frederick Buechner
Frederick Buechner

Frederick Buechner, born on July 11, 1926, is a renowned American writer. His works span across various genres including novels, essays, and plays, known for their profound religious and philosophical reflections. more

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