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“The child begins life as a pleasure-seeking animal; his infantile personality is organized around his own appetites and his own body. In the course of his rearing the goal of exclusive pleasure seeking must be modified drastically, the fundamental urges must be subject to the dictates of conscience and society, urges must be capable of postponement and in some instances of renunciation completely.”

Quote by Selma Fraiberg

Book:The Magic Years: Understanding and Handling the Problems of Early Childhood
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The Magic Years: Understanding and Handling the Problems of Early Childhood

This book delves into the complexities of early childhood, providing a detailed exploration of the developmental stages and common issues faced by children in their early years. It aims to assist parents and caregivers in understanding and effectively managing the unique challenges of this period of life. more

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Selma Fraiberg
Selma Fraiberg

Selma Fraiberg (March 8, 1918 - December 19, 1981) was an American psychologist and author. Her book 'The Magic Years' had a profound impact on the field of child psychology. more

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