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“I wouldn't advocate for a feminism that's buttoned-up and divorced of the messiness of our real lives. Your feelings are your feelings, but you're not going to litigate your feelings about my body. The feminist ethics that I signed up for were respect for my bodily autonomy, that my experience is my experience, and that I'm an expert in my own life.”

Quote by Melissa Gira Grant

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Melissa Gira Grant

Melissa Gira Grant is a prominent figure in contemporary social activism. Born in 1978, her specific professional category is not yet clearly defined. She is known for her contributions to gender equality, sex education, and internet freedom. more

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