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“I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.”

Quote by Virginia Satir

Book:Making Contact
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Making Contact

Exploring techniques and strategies for establishing and maintaining meaningful relationships. more

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Virginia Satir
Virginia Satir

American psychologist and author, known as a pioneer in the field of family therapy. Her work has had a profound impact on personal growth and family therapy. more

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