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“The truth is that we won’t receive the support we need until we ask for it. Just because we can do it all doesn’t mean we should. And when we don’t speak up about our needs, we’re asking our loved ones to read our minds—and then we resent them when they fail our test. By not being open and honest about the support we need, we’re selling ourselves short and setting our relationships up for failure.”

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Jessica Ortner
Jessica Ortner

Jessica Ortner is a renowned author whose works span across various fields, including literature, history, and philosophy. Her exact birth and death dates are unknown. more

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