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“I think about how truly interesting and odd it is that when a woman marries, traditionally she loses her name, becoming absorbed by the husband's family name - she is in effect lost, evaporated from all records under her maiden name. I finally understand the anger behind feminism - the idea that as a woman you are property to be conveyed between your father and your husband, but never an individual who exists independently. And on the flip side, it is also one of the few ways one can legitimately get lost - no one questions it.”

Quote by A.M. Homes

Work

The Mistress's Daughter: A Memoir

This memoir delves into the author's experiences growing up in a complex family dynamic, offering insights into the challenges of navigating family secrets and the quest for self-discovery. more

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A.M. Homes
A.M. Homes

A.M. Homes is an American writer born on December 18, 1961. Her works span across novels, short story collections, and essays, known for her unique narrative style and profound social insights. more

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