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“In my view, there are many different kinds of hugs. There are the ones you give to huggers, people who hug all the time. These, to me, are by far the least special of all hugs. I see the outstretched arms for the third time in as many days-the expectation of an embrace- and I am drawn in by a feeling of good manners rather than sincere closeness. It's like shaking hands. There are also those I hug only once in a great while because I hardly ever see then, but who I don't necessarily feel that close to. Those kinds of hugs are probably the most awkward. I'm expected to hug so I do it, even if I'm not sure I want to. Hugs like these are brief, and I am always left wondering what sort of look the other person had on their face where I couldn't see. And then there are HUGS. Like the hugs my parents give me when I'm having a bad day, any sort of hug from Armon the giant, or a hug like the one with Yipes right now. Yipes and I are not apt to embrace each other unless there's a good reason to do it, but when there is a good reason, it's a hug that feels like it ought to.”

Quote by Patrick Carman

Book:Stargazer
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Stargazer

Stargazer is a fictional narrative that takes readers on a journey through the stars, intertwining the wonders of the universe with the complexities of human emotions and aspirations. more

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Patrick Carman
Patrick Carman

Patrick Carman is an American author known for his works in children's and young adult literature. His books often feature elements of adventure, fantasy, and science fiction, and are highly popular among young readers. more

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