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The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence

This book delves into the psychological and physiological aspects of fear, examining how it can serve as a protective mechanism against potential violence. It discusses the various survival signals that humans possess and provides strategies for recognizing and responding to them effectively. more

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Gavin de Becker
Gavin de Becker

Gavin de Becker is a renowned author and security expert, known for his work on personal and public safety, as well as psychological tactics. His books, 'The Gift of Fear' and 'Fearless', have gained widespread popularity around the world and have been translated into multiple languages. more

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