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“Love, my God! What do you know of love? It's a curse; it's a disease that has got into you." "I know, I know. I told you it's worse than leprosy. But sometimes I tell myself it's love. We called it love in the beginning. We have moments of beauty together, Mildred and I, and I find this nowhere else.”

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PoetryEmotional AbuseAbusive RelationshipsToxic Relationship
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“Once someone has been traumatized again and again by someone who claimed to love them, once an abuser has warped the victim's reality and caused him or her to mistrust their perceptions through gaslighting, once a victim has been made to believe he or she is worthless, they are already traumatically bonded to their abusers. It takes a great deal of professional support, validation and resources in order for victims to detach from their abusers and begin to heal.”

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Book:Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
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