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“TV and media create in many people a sense of entitlement to happiness, love and care from others. [...] The problem with this [...] is that we are stuck looking for lovability, worth and our true place in life from other mere mortals. If everyone is looking for it, who has a surplus of love and care to give to fill our need? [...] We must accept that our lovability and worth don't come from others. They come from ourselves!”

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Book:The Psychic Pathway: A Workbook for Reawakening the Voice of Your Soul
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Sonia Choquette
Sonia Choquette

Sonia Choquette is a renowned author born on October 8, 1957. Her works primarily focus on the fields of spiritual growth and personal development, which have been well-received by readers. more

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