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“Along with the trust issues, one of the hardest parts to deal with is the feeling of not being believed or supported, especially by your own grandparents and extended family. When I have been through so much pain and hurt and have to live with the scars every day, I get angry knowing that others think it is all made up or they brush it off because my cousin was a teenager. I was ten when I was first sexually abused by my cousin, and a majority of my relatives have taken the perpetrator's side. I have cried many times about everything and how my relatives gave no support or love to me as a kid when this all came out. Not one relative ever came up to that innocent little girl I was and said "I am sorry for what you went through" or "I am here for you." Instead they said hurtful things: "Oh he was young." "That is what kids do." "It is not like he was some older man you didn't know." Why does age make a difference? It is a sick way of thinking. Sexual abuse is sexual abuse. What is wrong with this picture? It brings tears to my eyes the way my relatives have reacted to this and cannot accept the truth. Denial is where they would rather stay.”

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Book:Living for Today: From Incest and Molestation to Fearlessness and Forgiveness
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Living for Today: From Incest and Molestation to Fearlessness and Forgiveness

This memoir offers a deeply personal account of the author's struggle with the aftermath of incest and molestation. It chronicles the author's path to healing and self-empowerment, highlighting the challenges faced and the lessons learned along the way. more

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Erin Merryn
Erin Merryn

Erin Merryn is an active social activist, born in 1985. Her life and professional background are not publicly detailed, but her efforts in social welfare and advocacy have gained widespread attention. more

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