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“This and countless later experiences working in and around the world of "shrinks" and the mentally ill has led me to the conclusion that overinterpretation of human psychology can be inadvisable. My favorite Freud joke has him sitting in his gentlemen's club in Vienna after dinner, enjoying a cigar. A hostile colleague wanders up and says, "That's a big, fat, long cigar, Professor Freud," to which Freud replies, "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.”

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Book:They F*** You Up: How to Survive Family Life
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Oliver James
Oliver James

Oliver James is a British clinical psychologist born in 1953. He is renowned for his research on human behavior and emotions, particularly in the fields of family and child psychology. James's writings cover a wide range of topics from parenting to social psychology. more

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