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“Chemistry is not destiny, certainly. But these scientists have demonstrated that the most reliable way to produce an adult who is brave and curious and kind and prudent is to ensure that when he is an infant, his hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis functions well. And how do you do that? It is not magic. First, as much as possible, you protect him from serious trauma and chronic stress; then, even more important, you provide him with a secure, nurturing relationship with at least one parent and ideally two. That's not the whole secret of success, but it is a big, big part of it.”

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How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character

In 'How Children Succeed,' the author delves into the psychological and social factors that influence a child's development and achievements. The book argues that qualities such as determination, inquisitiveness, and resilience are more crucial for success than IQ or academic prowess. more

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Paul Tough
Paul Tough

Paul Tough is an American writer known for his in-depth reporting on educational and social issues. His work explores topics such as educational reform, child development, and social justice. more

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