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“Surrounded by freshness and shade, she used to read or work or surrender herself to that sensation of complete quiet which probably is familiar to everyone and the charm of which lies in the barely conscious, mute observation of the broad current of life, ceaselessly flowing around us and within ourselves.”

Quote by Ivan Turgenev

Work

Fathers and Sons

This novel delves into the complex dynamics between fathers and sons, examining themes of tradition, modernity, and the quest for personal freedom. more

Author

Ivan Turgenev
Ivan Turgenev

A renowned Russian novelist, born on November 9, 1818, and died on September 3, 1883. His works deeply depicted the changes in Russian society, particularly focusing on the lives of peasants and nobility. His representative works include 'Notes of a Hunter' and 'Fathers and Sons'. more

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