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“This is particularly true of those who "love too much" and those who tend to lose themselves in their relationships. Sometimes our love becomes distorted by our feelings of insecurity and our fear of abandonment. This is the often the case with those who become overly controlling and overly smothering of their partner. Others become emotionally abusive because of their fear of intimacy.”

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Book:The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
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The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing

This book explores the dynamics of emotionally abusive relationships and provides strategies for both victims and abusers to break free from such harmful patterns. more

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Beverly Engel
Beverly Engel

Beverly Engel is a renowned psychotherapist specializing in the fields of emotional and mental health. Her work involves helping individuals overcome fears, anxieties, and other psychological barriers. Although her exact birth and death years are unknown, her influence and contributions to the field of psychotherapy are significant. more

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