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“Let people judge me as they please - I can deceive them, but I cannot deceive myself.' And he suddenly understood that the disgust which he had lately felt toward everybody … was disgust with himself.”

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Leo Tolstoy
Leo Tolstoy

Leo Tolstoy was a Russian writer and thinker, a prominent representative of 19th-century Russian literature. His works deeply revealed social contradictions and human nature, and had a profound impact on the world. more

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