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“Concealing is the human way of pretending that we are who we imagine ourselves to be in the fairy tales we invent, that our lives have unfolded as we wish they would have rather than as they so wrenchingly do.”

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Book:Just as I Am
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Just as I Am

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Cicely Tyson
Cicely Tyson

Cicely Tyson, an iconic American actress, was born in December 1933. Renowned for her profound acting skills and versatile character portrayals, she has received numerous accolades, including an Academy Award for Best Actress. more

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