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“Even if our loved ones have assured us that they will be busy at work, even if they told us they hated us for going traveling in the first place, even if they left us last June or died twelve and a half years ago, it is impossible not to experience a shiver of a sense that they may have come along anyway, just to surprise us and make us feel special (as someone must have done for us when we were small, if only occasionally, or we would never had the strength to make it this far).”

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Book:A Week at the Airport: A Heathrow Diary
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A Week at the Airport: A Heathrow Diary

This book offers an intimate glimpse into the bustling world of Heathrow Airport, detailing the author's experiences over a week spent there. It explores the diverse characters and activities that make up the airport's vibrant community, providing a unique perspective on the complexities of modern aviation. more

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Alain de Botton
Alain de Botton

Alain de Botton is a Swiss writer and philosopher known for his books on philosophy, art, and culture. His work is characterized by its accessible exploration of profound themes, which has won him a wide audience. more

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