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“One is not loved accidentally; one’s own power to love produces love - just as being interested makes one interesting. People are concerned with the question of whether they are attractive while they forget that the essence of attractiveness is their own capacity to love. To love a person productively implies to care and to feel responsible for his life, not only for his physical existence but for the growth and development of all his human powers. To love productively is incompatible with being passive, with being an onlooker at the loved person’s life; it implies labor and care and the responsibility for his growth.”

Quote by Erich Fromm

Book:Man for Himself: An Inquiry Into the Psychology of Ethics
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Man for Himself: An Inquiry Into the Psychology of Ethics

This work delves into the intersection of psychology and ethics, arguing that moral principles are not imposed externally but arise from within human nature. It discusses the capacity for self-awareness and choice, and how these factors influence ethical decision-making. The book challenges deterministic views of human behavior, emphasizing the individual's responsibility in creating personal ethical standards. It also explores concepts such as conscience, guilt, and the pursuit of self-realization as central to understanding moral psychology. more

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Erich Fromm
Erich Fromm

Erich Fromm, born on March 23, 1900 in Germany and died on March 18, 1980, was a renowned psychologist. His research covered a wide range of fields including anthropology, philosophy, and religion, particularly known for his studies on human psychology and interpersonal relationships. more

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