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“After a long pause in which he took the time to blink several times, he asked, "You named your breasts?" I turned my back to him with a shrug. "I named my ovaries, too, but they don't get out as much.”

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Book:First Grave on the Right
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First Grave on the Right

This novel follows the adventures of a seasoned private investigator as they navigate through a complex web of intrigue and danger. The story is set in a modern-day setting and explores themes of justice, morality, and the human condition. more

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Darynda Jones
Darynda Jones

Darynda Jones, born in 1965, is an acclaimed American author known for her unique sense of humor and emotional depth in her novels. Her works have gained widespread attention and praise from readers. more

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