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“The African specialist Nahid Toubia puts it plain [when speaking of female genital mutilation]: In a man it would range from amoutation of most of the penis, to "removal of all the penis, its roots of soft tissue and part of the scrotal skin.”

Quote by Eve Ensler

Book:The Vagina Monologues
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The Vagina Monologues

This book is a compilation of personal narratives and essays that delve into the diverse experiences and attitudes of women towards their vaginas. It covers a range of topics, including body image, sexual experiences, and cultural perceptions, offering a candid and often humorous look at the complexities of female sexuality. more

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Eve Ensler
Eve Ensler

Eve Ensler is an American playwright, best known for her work 'The Vagina Monologues', which is based on her investigation into the issue of violence against women and has sparked a global movement for women's empowerment. Her works often focus on women's experiences and social justice issues. more

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