“Knowing how you like to be touched and being able to communicate that kindly to a partner is a major component of a satisfying sex life. But how do you know what makes your body sing if you haven’t spent some time finding out? Solo sex (masturbation) is a natural way to understand what your particular body likes and how it likes to be aroused.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“It might surprise you to know that the missionary position is most women’s favorite position. Missionary may at first glance seem boring, but it is also one of the most versatile positions. There are endless ways to modify it and take it to new levels.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Spooning and sideways positions can get hot and dirty but they also can be about building connection and closeness. If you want to get super intimate and close, sideways sex can get deep quick when you’re skin-to-skin against your lover and moving in rhythm together. Your bodies feel snug and more conjoined than ever.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“When I’m asked what the number-one tip for better sex is, I always say conscious breathing. By controlling your breath, you also control the oxygen in your bloodstream. Highly oxygenated blood gives our bodies more energy and helps our organs function to their highest potential. Just learning how to do one very simple specific breathing technique—like Breath of Fire or synchronized breathing with your partner—during sex and at climax can significantly improve your pleasure in the moment.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“The fact of the matter is that the positions you might see porn stars doing are not positions the rest of us can do right off the bat, if at all. These actors are professionals—in fact, think of them as trained athletes. You wouldn’t expect to wake up on a Sunday morning and run a marathon without any training, would you? Athletic accomplishments, including sexual ones, take practice.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“If she doesn't want to go down on you, try improving the taste of your semen by eating watermelon, celery, her pussy.”
Source: Sex Criminals, Vol. 2: Two Worlds, One Cop
“No amount of talking about sex is going to diminish the mystery of the experience of it. Sex is Sacred, Not Secret.”
“Our sexuality affects everything we do, and everything affects our sexuality. The same is true of our spirituality -- that which is most deeply meaningful to us. We can deny both. But denying them does not mean they are not both alive in every breath and heartbeat of life.”
Source: Sex, God, and the Conservative Church
“How do we reclaim the use of language? Can we get to a point where in SeSotho or isiXhosa women can speak about their genitals without offense given or taken based on the experience of how such words are used & weaponized against us”
Source: Dr T: A Guide to Sexual Health and Pleasure
“The journey was brutal, the results were glorious.”
Source: To Kill A Lion