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“Don't think that there is any satisfactory substitute for love between husband and wife. Respect and esteem make a good foundation, but they won't do alone. Don't be surprised, if you have married for money, or position, or fame, that you get *only* money, or position, or fame; love can not be bought.”

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Don'ts for Wives

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