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“On average, males tend to be more dominant, assertive, risk-prone, thrill-seeking, tough-minded, emotionally stable, utilitarian, and open to abstract ideas. Males also tend to score higher on self-estimates of intelligence, even though sex differences in general intelligence measured as an ability are negligible [2]. Men also tend to form larger, competitive groups in which hierarchies tend to be stable and in which individual relationships tend to require little emotional investment. In terms of communication style, males tend to use more assertive speech and are more likely to interrupt people (both men and women) more often-- especially intrusive interruptions-- which can be interpreted as a form of dominant behavior.”

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Scott Barry Kaufman
Scott Barry Kaufman

Scott Barry Kaufman is a renowned psychologist, author, and speaker, known for his contributions to the fields of creativity, intelligence, and personal growth. Born on June 3, 1979, Kaufman's work aims to help people understand their potential and inspire them to pursue personal growth and happiness. more

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