“Television has never known what to do with grief, which resists narrative: the dramas of grief are largely internal - for the bereaved, it is a chaotic, intense, episodic period, but the chaos is by and large subterranean, and easily appears static to the friendly onlooker who has absorbed the fact of loss and moved on.” FactsLossGriefKnownTelevisionPeriodsDramaMovedChaosIntenseNarrativeInternalsFriendlyChaoticStaticMoved On Author:Meghan O'Rourke
“Grief is real because loss is real. Each grief has its own imprint, as distinctive and as unique as the person we lost. The pain of loss is so intense, so heartbreaking, because in loving we deeply connect with another human being, and grief is the reflection of the connection that has been lost. We think we want to avoid the grief, but really it is the pain of the loss we want to avoid. Grief is the healing process that ultimately brings us comfort in our pain.” ThinkingWantHumansPersonsHas BeensRealPainLostProcessHuman BeingsLossGriefHealingComfortUniqueReflectionConnectionsIntenseHeartbreakingDistinctiveHealing Process Author:Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
“Grief does not end and love does not die and nothing fills its graven place. With grace, pain is transmuted into the gold of wisdom and compassion and the lesser coin of muted sadness and resignation; but something leaden of it remains, to become the kernel arond which more pain accretes (a black pearl): one pain becomes every other pain ... unless one strips away, one by one, the layers of pain to get to the heart of the pain - and this causes more pain, pain so intense as to feel like evisceration.” FeelsHeartDoeEndsPainSufferingDiesCausesBlackGriefCompassionGraceSadnessGoldAnd LoveRemainsIntenseLayersPearlsCoinsResignationKernelBlack Pearl Author:Barbara Grizzuti Harrison
“Grief is only the memory of widowed affection. The more intense the delight in the presence of the object, the more poignant must be the impression of the absence.” MemoriesGriefObjectsAffectionDelightAbsenceImpressionIntensePoignantWidowed Author:James Martineau
“The very dull truth is that writing love scenes is the same as writing other scenes - your job is to be fully engaged in the character's experience. What does this mean to them? How are they changed by it, or not? I remember being a little nervous, as I am when writing any high-stakes, intense scene (death, sex, grief, joy).” WritingMeanLittlesDoeCharacterJobsRememberJoySexGriefChangedTruth IsSceneIntenseNervousEngagedDullStakesWriting Love Author:Madeline Miller
“If someone harmed or tortured or killed one of my children I'd feel everything almost anyone else would feel. I'd probably have intense feelings of revenge. But these feelings would fade. In the end they're small and self-concerned. Only the grief would last.” IfsFeelsChildrenEndsSelfFeelingsLastsGriefConcernedRevengeIntenseMy ChildrenFadesIntense Feelings Author:Galen Strawson
“At certain moments of intense personal grief, capturing images was for me the only way to comprehend later what was happening.” WayMomentsCertainGriefHappeningsIntense Author:Pedro Meyer
“But with the increase of serious and just ground of complaint, a new kind of patience had sprung up in her Mother's mind. She was gentle and quiet in intense bodily suffering, almost in proportion as she had been restless and depressed when there had been no real cause for grief.” MindKindRealMotherSufferingCausesGriefSeriousQuietIncreaseIntenseGentleProportionSicknessComplaintsRestlessSprungSprung Up Book:The Complete Works of Elizabeth Gaskell (20+ Books) Source: The Complete Works of Elizabeth Gaskell (20+ Books)
“Time doesn’t, as advertised, heal all wounds. Although the wrenching immediacy of grief eventually passed, the settled sorrow that replaced it might in its own way be even more intense.” WayMightGriefSorrowWoundsHealIntenseReplacedImmediacy Author:Dean Koontz
“If, on thinking this, I look up to see if reality can quench my thirst, I see inexpressive facades, inexpressive faces, inexpressive gestures. Stones, bodies, ideas - all dead. All movements are one great standstill. Nothing means anything to me, not because it's unfamiliar but because I don't know what it is. The world has slipped away. And in the bottom of my soul - as the only reality of this moment - there's an intense and invisible grief, a sadness like the sound of someone crying in a dark room.” IfsThinkingKnowsWorldLooksMeanIdeasSoulMomentsBodyRealityFacesSoundDarkRoomsGriefSadnessCryMovementStonesBottomInvisibleIntenseMy SoulLook UpGesturesThirstUnfamiliarFacadeQuenchDark RoomStandstill Author:Fernando Pessoa
“These days grief seems like walking on a frozen river; most of the time he feels safe enough, but there is always that danger that he will plunge through. Now he hears the ice creak beneath him, and so intense and panicking is the sensation that he has to stand for a moment, press his hands to his face and catch his breath.” FeelsEnoughMomentsHandsSeemsFacesGriefDangerWalkingSafeRiversBreathsPressesIntenseIceThese DaysSensationsFrozenPlunge Book:One Day Source: One Day
“I feel a flash of grief so intense it almost makes me cry out: not for what I lost, but for the chances I missed.” FeelsLostChanceGriefCryIntenseFlash Book:Requiem Source: Requiem
“it occurs to me that there is so much I never knew about him--his past, his role in the resistance, what his life was like in the Wilds, before he came to Portland, and I feel a flash of grief so intense it almost makes me cry out: not for what I lost, but for the chances I missed.” FeelsPastLostChanceGriefRolesCryIntenseResistanceFlashPortland Book:Requiem Source: Requiem
“In the dog two conditions were found to produce pathological disturbances by functional interference, namely, an unusually acute clashing of the excitatory and inhibitory processes, and the influence of strong and extraordinary stimuli. In man precisely similar conditions constitute the usual causes of nervous and psychic disturbances. Different conditions productive of extreme excitation, such as intense grief or bitter insults, often lead, when the natural reactions are inhibited by the necessary restraint, to profound and prolonged loss of balance in nervous and psychic activity.” MenTwoDifferentScienceFoundStrongCausesProcessNaturalLossGriefPsychologyInfluenceConditionsDogProduceBalanceActivityProfoundExtraordinaryExtremesExperimentsReactionsIntenseBitterNervousInsultProductiveUsualRestraintPsychicsStimulusInterferenceDisturbance Author:Ivan Pavlov
“Paper is the strongest material in the world. Things under which a mountain will crumble, you can place on paper and it will hold: beauty at its most intense; love at its fiercest; the greatest grief; the greatest rage.” WorldGriefMaterialsMountainPaperRageIntenseStrongestIntense Love Author:Nadeem Aslam