“At times it may seem worse - harder, at least - to live through the despair of this loss without the temporary comfort of our addictive behaviour. We cannot drown our sorrows. We must face the fact that we don’t know, really, where we are, how we got here, how long the pain will last, or how to move past it. That uncertainty may be the most painful part of not knowing a God: no one is there to reassure us that a God will take the pain and confusion away. We simply don’t know. And we have no way to numb ourselves or to forget the condition we’re in.” KnowsWayMayLongFactsSeemsPainLastsPastFacesMovingLossForgetKnowingConditionsSorrowComfortDespairHarderPainfulGods WillConfusionUncertaintyTemporaryNot KnowingBehaviourNumbHis Loss Author:Marya Hornbacher
“Whenever someone sorrows, I do not say, “forget it,” or “it will pass,” or “it could be worse” - all of which deny the integrity of the painful experience. But I say, to the contrary, “It is worse than you may allow yourself to think. Delve into the depth. Stay with the feeling. Think of it as a precious source of knowledge and guidance. Then and only then will you be ready to face it and be transformed in the process.” ThinkingMayFeelingsFacesProcessForgetReadySourceIntegritySorrowDepthPainfulDenyContraryGuidanceTransformedForget ItPainful Experiences Author:Peter Koestenbaum
“Into every life there come the painful, despairing days of adversity and buffeting. There seems to be a full measure of anguish, sorrow, and often heartbreak for everyone, including those who earnestly seek to do right and be faithful. ... In this way the soul can become like soft clay in the hands of the Master.” WaySoulHandsSeemsMastersSorrowAdversityIncludingPainfulFaithfulAnguishClayBeing Faithful Author:James E. Faust
“Growth can be painful, change can be painful but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow it only empties today of it strengths” DoeTodayGrowthTomorrowSorrowAnxietyEmptyPainfulStuckStaying Author:Charles Spurgeon
“Through the blur, I wondered if I was alone or if other parents felt the same way I did - that everything involving our children was painful in some way. The emotions, whether they were joy, sorrow, love or pride, were so deep and sharp that in the end they left you raw, exposed and yes, in pain. The human heart was not designed to beat outside the human body and yet, each child represented just that - a parent's heart bared, beating forever outside its chest.” IfsWayHumansHeartChildrenEndsBodyPainJoyLeftFeltParentEmotionForeverPrideMomSorrowBeatsOur ChildrenParentingPainfulMotherhoodChestsExposedAutismHuman HeartHuman BodyFunny InspirationalInvolvingBeing A MotherBlurBeing A ParentInspirational ParentingParenthood FunnyInspirational ParentsI Love My ParentsSorrow LoveI Love Being A Mother Author:Debra Ginsberg
“There are no moments more painful for a parent than those in which you contemplate your child's perfect innocence of some imminent pain, misfortune, or sorrow. That innocence (like every kind of innocence children have) is rooted in their trust of you, one that you will shortly be obliged to betray; whether it is fair or not, whether you can help it or not, you are always the ultimate guarantor or destroyer of that innocence.” KindChildrenMomentsHelpingPainParentPerfectSorrowFairsUltimateParentingPainfulInnocenceYour ChildrenMisfortunesBetrayRootedContemplatingObligedDestroyers Author:Michael Chabon
“To wait. In our lives we know joy, anger, sorrow, and a hundred other emotions, but these emotions all together occupy a bare one percent of our time. The remaining ninety-nine percent is just living in waiting. I wait in momentary expectation, feeling as though my breasts are being crushed, for the sound in the corridor of the footsteps of happiness. Empty. Oh, life is too painful, the reality that confirms the universal belief that it is best not to be born.” KnowsFeelingsRealityTogetherLife IsJoyBeliefWaitingSoundBornEmotionOur LivesSorrowExpectationsPercentHundredEmptyUniversalPainfulNineOur TimeBreastsNinetyCrushedFootstepsMomentaryCorridorsNinety Nine Author:Osamu Dazai
“I found that the only way I could control this sorrow was not to think of [it] at all, which was almost as painful as the loss itself.” ThinkingWayFoundLossSorrowPainful Book:Beauty Source: Beauty
“Happiness is yours in the here and now. The painful states of anxiety and loneliness are abolished permanently. Financial affairs are not financial problems. You are at ease with yourself. You are not at the mercy of unfulfilled cravings. Confusion is replaced with clarity. There is a relieving answer to every tormenting question. You possess a True Self. Something can be done about every unhappy condition. While living in the world you can be inwardly detached from its sorrows to live with personal peace and sanity.” WorldSelfStatesDoneProblemHappinessPeaceAnswersConditionsLonelinessSorrowAnxietyMercyAffairFinancialPainfulUnhappyConfusionClarityEaseSanityReplacedTrue SelfCravingHere And NowDetachedFinancial ProblemsPersonal Peace Author:Vernon Howard
“There are some arts which to those that possess them are painful, but to those that use them are helpful, a common good to laymen, but to those that practise them grievous. Of such arts there is one which the Greeks call medicine. For the medical man sees terrible sights, touches unpleasant things, and the misfortunes of others bring a harvest of sorrows that are peculiarly his; but the sick by means of the art rid themselves of the worst of evils, disease, suffering, pain and death.” MenMeanArtUsePainSufferingEvilCommonWorstTerribleSorrowDiseaseSickSightMedicinePainfulMedicalGreekHelpfulCall MeMisfortunesPhysiciansHarvestCommon GoodPractiseLaymanMisfortunes Of OthersSuffering Pain Book:Hippocrates Source: Hippocrates
“Never have anything to do with likes and dislikes. The absence of what one likes is painful, as is the presence of what one dislikes. Therefore don't take a liking to anything. To lose what one likes is hard, but there are no bonds for those who have no likes and dislikes. From preference arises sorrow, from preference arises fear, but he who is freed from preference has no sorrow and certainly no fear.” HardFearLosesSorrowPainfulAbsenceLikesAriseDislikePreferenceNo FearLikes And Dislikes Author:Gautama Buddha