“More often than not, people who are obsessed with their desires and feelings are generally unhappier in life vs. people that refocus their attention on service to others or a righteous cause. Have you ever heard someone say their life sucked because they fed the homeless? Made their children laugh? Or, bought a toy for a needy child at Christmas time?” PeopleLifeNeedsCharacterHappinessJoyValuesHumanityChangeCommunityAttitudeQualityFamilyPerspectiveEgoAchievementCharityGoalsStuckObsessionSelfishnessObsessedServiceMoralsAltruismHomelessDesiresNew BeginningsDirectionLow Self EsteemNeedyNarcissistCrossroadsWantsSelf AbsorbedStayingpositiveu ComStaying PositiveDirectionsParenting 101RefocusChoose The RightSeeking ApprovalWhite PathFullfillmentRefocusingService ProjectsFamilies ForeverFamily ProjectsFamily SharingResponsibilitesWhat Matteres Author:Shannon L. Alder