“In other words, I want an erotic that demands space be made for honest bodies that like to also fuck.” SexSexualityEroticEroticismBody Acceptance Book:Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good Source: Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
“People try to shame me for being fat. When I am walking down the street, men lean out of their car windows and shout vulgar things at me about my body, how they see it and how it upsets them that I am not catering to their gaze and their preferences and desires. I try not to take these men seriously because what they are really saying is, ‘I am not attracted to you. I do not want to fuck you and this confuses my understanding of masculinity, entitlement, and place in this world.’ It is not my job to please them with my body.” BodyFeminismFeministMasculinityFatBody PositivityCatcallingBody Acceptance Book:Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good Source: Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good