“I have learned, that in this life, you must always be your own advocate. We yearn for someone to always be on our side, to always trust us, to always believe us and believe in us, regardless of the world and everything in it! But the reality of life proves that the majority of people are only capable of a shallow love. They will only advocate you as much as you advocate yourself. They are admirers who have fallen into adoration of your own publication of yourself and once that image begins to shake and quiver? Their "love" shakes and quivers, too. Very seldom will you find someone who will love the way that you tremble. And yet, this is the only type of love that is ever even true! If you are not loved for the way that you tremble and the way that you come unhinged, then you are not even loved at all.” LoveLove QuotesSelf LoveWisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveWhat Is LoveGuidance QuotesWhat Is True Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“She didn't belong anywhere and she never really belonged to anyone. And everyone else belonged somewhere and to someone. People thought she was too wonderful. But she only wanted to belong to someone. People always thought she was too wonderful to belong to them or that something too wonderful would hurt too much to lose. And that's why she liked him-- because he just thought she was crazy.” LoveWonderfulCrazyLoversBelongingInspirational LoveCrazinessHeartwarmingBoy Meets GirlBelonging To Someone Author:C. JoyBell C.
“As women, we are always taught never to let a man know of our affections towards him, lest he laugh, run away, or think that we are psycho. But what if that's not true? Have you ever stopped to think that? What if it's like there's a beautiful little bird in our hearts and we're too afraid to let anyone see it in there? What's wrong with letting anyone know that there's a bird in your chest? Maybe there are lots of wrong ones, but maybe there's one that's just for you— the one who won't laugh or run away when he sees that little bird. After all, it’s just a pretty bird!” MenLoveInspirational QuotesMen And WomenBirdsWomens InspirationalAffectionsLittle BirdsInspirational Writing For Women Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Don’t fall in love with the idea of someone being in love with you; fall in love with a person. Don’t fall in love with the idea of being in love with someone else; fall in love with a person. Don’t fall in love with a concept, an idea, a theory... don’t fall in love with a list on a paper. Fall in love with a person. Always, always, it must be the person.” LoveRelationshipsWisdom QuotesWhat Love IsHow To Love A Person Author:C. JoyBell C.
“If I am to be fallen into love, I will. And if as a result I will appear to be stupid, disillusioned, and of poor judgment, I will. And I would be damned if I cared what other people think. For I would rather be thought of as all of these things, than not love. If in loving, I become the naked woman on the horse, I will ride that horse with my head held high. This is my spirit. I am unbreakable.” LoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesPassionInspiringCourageStrengthHumanBraveryFearlessInspirational LovePassionate LovePassionate LifeUnbreakableFight For LoveUnbreakable Spirit Author:C. JoyBell C.
“In this world, it is too common for people to search for someone to lose themselves in. But I am already lost. I will look for someone to find myself in.” LoveLostInspiringInspirational LifeLoversInspirational LoveSearching And FindingInspirational Love Quotes Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Maybe we shouldn't be looking for love. Maybe we should be looking for a person. Because maybe you can find love in a person, but not have that person. So if you look for love, what you will find is love. But if you want to belong to someone, and you want someone to belong to you, you should look for a person.” PeopleLoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesLearningInspirational LifeInspirational LovePersonLooking For LoveLearning The TruthInspirational Love QuotesLearnings Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The coward says in his heart “There is no love.” Because, standing in the shadows of the big, grand, and powerful existence of love, his small spirit is left feeling even smaller and less significant. And so he chooses to deny the existence of love altogether. Because he is too small to have it.” LoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesCowardicePower Of LoveThe Coward Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We all have thorns in our flesh. All of us. Love is when we stay and help someone pluck out their thorns one-by-one and they do the same for us. Love is also when we pluck the thorns out of our own flesh, one-by-one. But today, the world teaches us that we shouldn’t even see those thorns, that we should only see the petals. As a result, we don’t know how to love ourselves and we don’t know how to love others. Stay with the darkness, and bring that darkness into the light. It’s there, look at it.” PeopleLoveHumanityHealingDarknessWords Of WisdomLife And LivingTrue LoveThornsPetalsDarkness And LightHow To LoveFalse TeachingsFalse PositivityTrue PositivityHow To Be Human Author:C. JoyBell C.
“When people begin to define the things that they believe in, based upon the exclusion of all the things that they hate, all that does is eat away at the soul. Define the things that you believe in based upon the pursuit of the the things that you love and then that love should be able to override all those things that you hate.” LoveHateWisdom QuotesInspirational LivingLove And HateLove RulesHow To Be A Good PersonHow To Be A Good PoliticianSustainable Politics Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Love is greater than marriage, love is the greater thing while marriage, though noble and honorable, is questionable in its origins. I question the creations of man, I do not question the masterpieces of God.” LoveMarriage Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Love is a devoted madness while marriage is a responsibility. But then it is possible to be devotedly mad and responsible at the same time, yes it is. And so this is how we should begin to see marriage: as it is, for what it is! Marriage needs to cease being an eternal ideal with the predestined ending of death! We must allow it to be and to appear as what it is! Perhaps if we approach marriage with eyes open to the reality of the nature of it, we will stop failing at it! We fail at it because we think of it as something it is not! We are romanced by an ideal that is not in touch with reality and that's why when we begin to discover the reality of it, we see ourselves as failures! It is a wild and blessed thing to want to spend the rest of your adult life with one person, growing and changing together, while stepping deeper into the depths of love; notwithstanding, we must understand that we may not get it "right" the first time.” LoveMarriageThe True Nature Of Marriage Author:C. JoyBell C.