“The problem about cutting out the best of your heart and giving it to people, is that 1. It hurts to do that; and 2. You never know if they are going to throw it away or not. But then you should still do it. Because any other way is cowardice. At the end of the day, it's about being brave and we are only haunted by the ghosts that we trap within ourselves; we are not haunted by the ghosts that we let out. We are haunted by the ghosts that we cover and hide. So you let those ghosts out in that best piece of your heart that you give to someone. And if the other person throws it away? Or doesn't want it to begin with? Someone else will come along one day, cut out from his/her heart that exact same jagged shape that you cut out of your own heart, and make their piece of heart fit into the rest of yours. Wait for that person. And you can fill their missing piece with your soul.” Inspirational QuotesCourageBraveryTrue LoveInspirational LoveSoulmateSoul MateThe OneInner GhostsWait For The One Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Many of the people in this world that you will see and that you will meet, are the versions of themselves that have come about as a result of the things that have happened to them in life. When people laugh at you, you develop a layer of skin for that and when you lose people, you develop a different layer of skin for that and when you are hurt during the times you are vulnerable, there is another special layer of skin for that; so on and so forth. We become covered in layers of different kinds of skin that we never asked to have and that we would never want to have! But there we are, underneath all of that; we walk around and we don't see ourselves, we don't see each other, we can hardly remember anything about who we are! It takes someone to look through all of that skin, to remember yourself on behalf of you. A person can give you the set of eyes that were used to view the real you, in some distant past, in some different lifetime! Then when you see them looking at you like that, you remember who you are and that's when the layers of unwanted skin begin to peel and through that peeling you become a newborn.” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesTrue LoveHumanismGnosisPast LivesTrue UnderstandingTrue GenerosityWho You Really AreUnderneath It AllKnowing The OneLayers Of SkinLayers On PeopleSeeing The One Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Thus is the nature of love: that you must use it! A love unused is not love! If it is something that sits on the shelf that you don't know what to do with, it is not true to the nature of love! Use love!” LoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveLovingInspirational Love QuotesNature Of LoveUse Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” PeopleLoveInspirationalRealityInspirational QuotesLife LessonsHumanityLearningGrowingInspirational LifeLife And LivingTrue LoveReality Of LifeInspirational LoveReal LoveWhat MattersTo Be LovedThose Who Love Us Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I don't understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There's only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?” LoveLifeInspirationalInspirational QuotesRelationshipsLivingDatingTrue LoveInspirational Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The best love in the world, is the love of a man. The love of a man who came from your womb, the love of your son! I don't have a daughter, but maybe the love of a daughter is the best, too. I am first and foremost me, but right after that, I am a mother. The best thing that I can ever be, is me. But the best gift that I will ever have, is being a mother.” LoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesMotherInspiringTrue LoveMotherhoodMothersReal LoveMothers And SonsSons And MothersThe Best GiftThe Greatest GiftThe Love Of A Son Author:C. JoyBell C.
“How could you love us being together?" he asked me "We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?" So I told him "I know that we're not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that's us. That's what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it's no good, it's what we have! It's us.” LoveInspirational QuotesRelationshipsLoversHumanMen And WomenTrue LoveLove StoryInspirational Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Many people think that love represents chains, bondage, the opposite of freedom. But people who believe such things are simple-minded creatures who have been lied to, and who easily accept the general trend of the lie. It is in fact love that is the only thing powerful enough to set one free from even the most deeply-embedded and thoroughly-wound chains of the soul, the mind, and the body. The fact is that we are born into chains and born into bondages; these things are put upon us by fear, pain and doubt. When you are thoroughly loved by someone in mind and in heart, this has the power to set you so free, more free than you have ever been before. And that is because freedom is not the equivalent of detachment. Freedom is the equivalent of that which sets you free. And when someone loves you the way that only they can, that is what sets you free.” LoveFreedomWisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveLovingBeing LovedGuidance QuotesLove Is FreedomThe Nature Of FreedomFreedom Is LoveThe Nature Of Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“For some people, “the point of no return” begins at the very moment their souls become aware of each others’ existence.” LoveInspirational QuotesLove QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveSoul MatesTwin FlamesOther Half Of Your SoulYour Other Half Author:C. JoyBell C.
“When we get married, we promise a person the rest of our lives, "Til death do us part". But what if in another life we promised someone forever? What if ten lifetimes ago we promised someone lifetime after lifetime after lifetime? Think about it. Maybe that's why marriages fail when they do fail. Because maybe promises are never really broken.” Inspirational QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveReincarnationIncarnationSoul MatesPromisesTwin FlamesPast LivesLifetimesKeeping A PromiseUnbroken Promises Author:C. JoyBell C.
“It is very interesting how humanity has linked love to the lack of freedom. I think that when you find love, it is because you have become so free that you were able to truly find it. Love is a wild and running thing. Only the free can find what is wild and running. You become so free, that you are able to truly love. A life of bondage is a life lived without love.” LoveWisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveLove Quote Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People usually fall in love. But some people were born in love. Already. And always.” LoveRelationshipsFalling In LoveTrue LoveInspirational LoveReal LoveSoul MatesTwin Flames Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Love hard. Love not like the world loves. Love hard, go hard, let it kill you.” LoveWisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveReal LoveHow To LoveGo HardLove Hard Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People ask, "Are you important enough for me to love you?" But they've got it all wrong. When you love someone, you make them important. And the same thing happens to you. You don't love them because they're important; they become important because you love them.” Inspirational QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveLoving SomeoneHow To Love Someone Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Some people are special because they're princes or princesses; or queens or kings! Some are special because they're presidents and senators; or because you can watch them on film! But what is the stuff that makes any person special? That makes any person more special than the world and everything in it? That would be love. Once you love someone? They're special, they're important. You make them important, it's your love that makes them more important than the whole world and everything in it! And guess what? That kind of important is real.” Inspirational QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveLoving SomeoneSpecialness Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Men are taught how to be what a woman wants and women are taught how to be what a man wants, therefore, people end up with people because there is something offered which they want; not because they see the other person, understand the other person, share the other person's dreams... why are not men and women being taught how to show other people their dreams, the colours of their souls, their fears and pains, their joys and laughters? People should be falling in love with people! Not with ideas!” Wisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveStupidity Of Man Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We all have cracks and tears and shattered glass within our souls. Some have more than others. We do not wish to seek one who has none; but we wish to find the one who can say "look at me, look at this." We wish to find the one who sees every bit of broken glass and who will put those pieces into the palms of our hands and say "please keep them." And we wish to be that kind of person, too. This is how it should be.” Inspirational QuotesInspirational LifeWisdom QuotesTrue LoveMeaning Of LifeInspirational LoveReal LoveLoving SomeoneBrokennessBeing TruthfulThe OneBeing BrokenFinding The One Author:C. JoyBell C.
“It's easy loving someone in the light: in the bright light where everyone wants you to love each other, everyone expects you to stay together, and it's the right thing to do. But have you ever loved someone in the dark: in the deep dark where nobody wants you to love, everyone expects you to be a mistake, and it's supposed to be the wrong thing to do? A love like that isn't for anybody's eyes, it isn't for anybody else, and for no other reasons than love itself. It's the flower that grew in the pavement, the vines that grew inside cement walls, the lotus that rises cyan blue from the mud.” True LoveReal LoveUnrequited LoveSelfless LoveLotus FlowerUndying LoveHidden Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Love doesn't mean sacrificing your mental health. Love doesn't mean sacrificing your mental stability. Love doesn't mean sacrificing your self-esteem and/or the validation of your feelings. Love doesn't mean the end of you. At the end of Love, you should find more of you, not less of you.” Relationship QuotesTrue LoveReal LoveMental Health QuotesMental Health AwarenessHealthy LoveBeneficial LoveLove In Life Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People have all these opinions on what happens when we die and stand at the front gates of Heaven. People think we'll be asked if we were holy, if we were righteous, if we did good deeds. But I think we'll be asked if we loved a wild love, if we loved with all our soul, if we knew a love worth living for. Have you known a wild love? Have you told someone everything in your heart? That's what they'll ask us.” Love QuotesTrue LoveLove Quotes And SayingsMeaning Of LifeReal LoveDeep LoveMeaning Of LoveMeaning Of Life QuotesMad LoveWild Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“There are all these relationships that are like cookie cutter shapes; identical and repetitive. Then there are all these relationships that aren't even relationships! Just facades for show and tell. But every once and a while, you'll see this bird breaking out of this cage and it's so weird and it's so obscure and you've hardly ever seen it before so you don't even know at first if you should name it Ugly or Beautiful! Relationships, stories of love, that just shatter the walls around the mind. They made it. They broke through. Like Ugly-Beautiful birds bursting forth from rusty cages! And then suddenly you stop and you think to yourself, "Maybe love really is real.” LoveRelationshipsTrue LoveReal LoveRelationships QuotesFake LoveFacades Author:C. JoyBell C.
“If we were all looking for something 'easy come and easy go', then all of our lives would be easy. The problem is that we look for something real, don't we? And it is this longing for what is real, that makes finding the right person to be the most difficult task in the world. You can marry someone and promise the rest of your life to the person, only to find out later that this person makes you feel lonely. If we had no innate longing for true love and for true partnership, then none of us would have any problems! Therefore, the most frightening question to ponder upon, is, 'what if true love does not exist; what if the real stuff isn't real at all?' In such a case, life would be meaningless. I suppose I would rather believe in love relentlessly, than live in this world meaninglessly.” LoveBelieveRelationshipsTrue LoveMeaning Of LifeReal LoveBelieve In LoveIs Love Real Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We don't fall in love with people because they're good people. We fall in love with people whose darkness we recognise. You can fall in love with a person for all of the right reasons, but that kind of love can still fall apart. But when you fall in love with a person because your monsters have found a home in them-- that's the kind of love that owns your skin and bones. Love, I am convinced, is found in the darkness. It is the candle in the night.” LoveFalling In LoveTrue LoveMonstersInner DemonsMonsters WithinRwal Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I think, that you can meet someone one day, who possesses the eyes you never had but always needed; the vision to see backwards and forwards and all around, the other wing that you need to complete your flight. And I think it can just happen, suddenly, without explanation! And then I think, it would be good to keep that person, you'll always have those eyes, and always have two wings.” LoveTrue LoveInspirational Love QuotesWings And FlyingCompleting The SightCompleting The VisionCompleting The WingsI Will Keep YouKeep HerKeep HimKeeping SomeoneVision And Sight Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The journey to a thousand stars is not too far a journey in the quest to have true love abiding in a pure heart.” LoveInspirationalTrue LovePure HeartJourney To A Thousand Stars Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I will never want to be the one a man chooses to be with because I'm the one he knows will always forgive him over and over again. God forbid I ever become that. God forbid a man ever stays with me because true love scares him. May I never be just a man's safe choice.” Love QuotesRelationship QuotesTrue LoveLove Quotes And SayingsReal Love QuotesThe Other WomanWomans Quotes Author:C. JoyBell C.
“A lot of these relationships out here are sticking together thanks to ropes of co-dependency, unhealthy and insecure attachment patterns, fears, control issues, and familiarity. Love is seldom. Soulmates are endangered.” True LoveSoulmatesRelationships QuotesSoulmate QuotesSoulmates Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I think that the process of giving your true love to someone, mainly surrounds the act of opening a door inside that's all locked up. Behind that door lives the small child that is the real you. The small child who hurts too much and feels too much and laughs too loud and always believes... true love involves unlocking the many padlocks on that door, taking her by the hand, and guiding her to the arms of the one you've chosen to love. And I think this is why some people change forever... because they loved someone in this way, but it only hurt too much. The little one was wounded. So this is why you take her back and tell her she's better off staying inside. It is a poetic, lyrical tragedy. Some people die this way, before they ever are dead. Or maybe we don't die; maybe we live on, behind that door.” Love QuotesTragedyTrue LoveInner ChildTragedy Of LifeWhat Is True LoveTragedy Of LovePain Of Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The only reason to be in a relationship or in a marriage, is if at the end of the day when the music stops playing and all the people go home and the lights are off and it's quiet and you're alone with that person -- you still don't feel alone. That one person makes you unalone. Because even while the music is playing and all the other people are with you and the lights are on and it's noisy inside of your head -- you're still all alone if that person isn't with you. You need to be with the person that never makes you alone. Even at the end of the day when everything else is gone.” LoveRelationshipsMarriageTrue LoveThe OneGuidance For LifeMeaning Of MarriageMeaning Of Relationship Author:C. JoyBell C.
“L'amore della tua vita non è la persona che ti intrappola in se stesso; l'amore della tua vita è la persona che ti rende libero da così tante delle trappole in cui sei già caduto! L' amore della tua vita non è la persona che ti acceca verso qualsiasi altra persona; l'amore della tua vita è la persona che rimuove le tante bende che si sono accumulate su di te durante la tua vita. L'innamorato (giusto) per te è quello che ti rende libero in se stesso. Sei stato liberato dalla schiavitù e dentro quella libertà risiede quella persona! QUELLO è l'innamorato per te!” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesTrue LoveAmoreLove Of Your LifeThe One For YouThe Love For You Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People decide they like one another, based upon the color of their shells that they wear on the outside of them. And then they decide to leave one another, based upon the color of their souls that is who they really are underneath the shell. I think it should be the other way around. I think people should decide they like one another, based upon the color of their souls and then decide to leave one another if they run into the shells. But then it's not even that. What if they loved the soul and then broke down each others' shells when they ran into them? Then nobody would leave anybody and everybody would know what love means.” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesTrue LoveGenuineBeing RealBeing GenuineThe Meaning Of LoveBeing TransparentWhat S Wrong With SocietyHow To Be RealThe Evolving HumanWhat S Wrong With Humanity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I don't think there are enough words in the world that exist to express exactly just how much I love my son! He's right there in the front of my soul, he can turn me into an eagle, a lioness, a tigress, a swan! A goof or a queen! There's no underestimating just how much I love him; I surround him like the ocean surrounds the ships! I never wanted to change the world, until he came along and showed me that he deserves a better world to live in!” True LoveMy SonMother And SonPowerful LoveI Love My SonA Great LoveLove For My SonRelationship Of Mother And Son Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Love is like a good cake; you never know when it's coming, but you'd better eat it when it does!” LoveInspirationalInspirational QuotesInspirational LifeTrue LoveCakeInspirational Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“You only need one man to love you. But him to love you free like a wildfire, crazy like the moon, always like tomorrow, sudden like an inhale and overcoming like the tides. Only one man and all of this.” MenLoveInspirationalPassionInspiringTrue LoveInspirational LoveReal LoveThe Love Of A Man Author:C. JoyBell C.
“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!” LoveRunningInspirational QuotesPassionFreedomInspiringFireInspirational LifeTrue LoveBurningFlamesInspirational LoveReal LoveLoving SomeoneInspirational Love Quotes Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I have learned, that in this life, you must always be your own advocate. We yearn for someone to always be on our side, to always trust us, to always believe us and believe in us, regardless of the world and everything in it! But the reality of life proves that the majority of people are only capable of a shallow love. They will only advocate you as much as you advocate yourself. They are admirers who have fallen into adoration of your own publication of yourself and once that image begins to shake and quiver? Their "love" shakes and quivers, too. Very seldom will you find someone who will love the way that you tremble. And yet, this is the only type of love that is ever even true! If you are not loved for the way that you tremble and the way that you come unhinged, then you are not even loved at all.” LoveLove QuotesSelf LoveWisdom QuotesTrue LoveInspirational LoveWhat Is LoveGuidance QuotesWhat Is True Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We all have thorns in our flesh. All of us. Love is when we stay and help someone pluck out their thorns one-by-one and they do the same for us. Love is also when we pluck the thorns out of our own flesh, one-by-one. But today, the world teaches us that we shouldn’t even see those thorns, that we should only see the petals. As a result, we don’t know how to love ourselves and we don’t know how to love others. Stay with the darkness, and bring that darkness into the light. It’s there, look at it.” PeopleLoveHumanityHealingDarknessWords Of WisdomLife And LivingTrue LoveThornsPetalsDarkness And LightHow To LoveFalse TeachingsFalse PositivityTrue PositivityHow To Be Human Author:C. JoyBell C.