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“Most of us. We lose ourselves, friends and loved ones. We lose good memories , lessons, and opportunities. We lose good times, satisfaction, and pleasures. It is because we live our lives trying to prove a point to everyone. We constantly without fail, daily hurt ourselves and always being miserable by trying to show them. We are fighting ourselves, our hearts, feelings, minds, conscious and nature, because we trying to be seen as good people. We are not allowing us to be humans, to feel, to experience, to love, to live because we want to be seen as better than everyone. That is why even when we have achieved everything we wanted. We are still empty inside, unsatisfied, lonely , hurt, miserable and incomplete. There is a part of us missing. It is missing because we were not true to ourselves. Be true to yourself.”

“The world is changing, and we have to learn on how to adapt to its change and on how to use Internet or technology properly . Do you know what sadfishing ? Do you know what is catfish ? Do you know what is photoshop ? Do you know what is deepfake ? Do you know what is a bots ? Do you know about POPIA ? Do you know about GDPR ? Do you know what is phishing ? Do you know what is Social Engineering ? Don’t believe anything see or read on social media. Verify every message, text, videos, chats that they are real before you react to them. If we are not careful, Social Media will start wars, end careers, end marriages, and end lives with lies or fabricated materials.”

“To lovers out there …. Spend your youth days with me so I can spend your old days with you. Spend your good times with me so I can spend your bad times with you. Spend your strong days with me so I can spend your weak days with you. Spend your happy days with me so I can spend your sad days with you. Spend your rich days with me so I can spend your poor days with you. Spend your success days with me so I can spend your failure days with you. Spend your days where you are beautiful with me so I can spend the days where you are no longer attractive with you. The problem is we want to give ourselves to others when we are no longer in good shape or condition. When we are tired, burned out , warned out and exhausted. When we are emotionally damaged, depressed and heart broken. We then want to be loved and accepted by force by those who we rejected when everything was going well for us.”

“To lovers out there … The reason why most marriages don’t work. It is because they all about what you get out of it rather than what you get in it. It is about the price and not the heart. They think they can benefit more in divorce than in staying married. Marriage it is not their final stop, but is a stop sign to catch their ride of where they want to be in life.”

“To lovers out there … There is a difference between someone whose relationship failed and someone who fails in relationships. Someone who relationship fails is someone who has not met the right compatible partner. Then someone who fails in relationship is someone who can’t be selfless. Nonmatter relationship they are in. They can’t reciprocate the love ,respect, kindness and care. Their relationships doesn’t fail because of what happened, but they fail because of who they are. Horrible ,narcissists, manipulative, selfish, abusive, inconsiderate human beings.”

“To lovers out there … Make sure you find or provide a safe space or environment for your partner, because when someone realize they are in a safe space or environment. They become free. They open up or loosen up. They trust, communicate, share, explore. They try everything and they become their true selves. They say how they feel. They start having fun, pleasure and enjoying. They become at peace and most importantly they settle.”

“If you are a parent and you have a child. What did you teach your child ? or you have let them grow on their own like wild plants. That is going to be bitter and going to cause problems In the society. Choose to teach your child , what is right, respect, love, ethics, values, morals, principles. Children are taught. if they learn on their own . They become a problem and something that everyone cries about.”

“To lovers out there .… People who don’t like you , love you or who are not into you. Get offended by smalls things you say or do. You don’t have to say or do wrong things. They might be in the relationship with you, but since you are not the right person for them. Everything coming from you is wrong and bad. They are tolerating you instead of loving you.”

“To lovers out there … A person who loves you . Will give you everything even if they have nothing, but a person who doesn’t love you will give you only excuses even if they have everything. People will literally do anything for the ones they love and do nothing for the ones they don’t love. It is not a matter of having more or of lacking. It is the matter of the heart if they love you or not.”

“To lovers out there …. Love is just feelings. You can feel anything for anyone regardless of how they look and who they are. It doesn’t care about your intelligence or IQ. That is why everyone qualifies to love and to be loved. Your standards has nothing to do with love. That is why most of your relationships don’t work. You want to use your position, beauty, money, power, life status, education, qualification to measure love. If you continue thinking and living like that. You will find partners, but you will never find love. You are busy fighting your feelings because the people you love don’t have your standards.”

“To lovers out there … Paying a revenge to your ex by being in a relationship that you are not happy in. It is not right and healthy for you. You are hurting yourself more by trying to hurt them. Trying to be spiteful to them by sleeping around with strangers or their friends. It is a sign that you are not mental ok. You need to heal. Please seek help. How is offering yourself to people a punishment to them.”

“To lovers out there … Some people are the way they are. They even converted and became something they are not, because they had never experienced or received love from their partners. They had been into multiple relationships or marriages but had never experienced true love shown to them. Reason might be because of their attitude or behavior. Might be also because of the type or preferences they select. Not that they have bad luck or not meant to be loved.”

“To lovers out there… Most marriages don’t work because people get married to an idea than a person. It is the idea they have of them getting married or an idea they have about the other person. Because he/she goes to church , Because he/she is rich, because he/she looks innocent, because he/she is educated. They marry someone on what they have or do but not on who they are.”

“To lovers out there … No man is an island. We all need someone In our lives no matter how rich we are, how educated , well-spoken, or how capable we are .The reason why most people are alone and suffering the way they are suffering . It is because they’re judgmental towards other people. They judge people without knowing them first. By doing so they choose to ignore good people who have good intentions, good heart and who care about them, because of their own selfish ego and standards. By the time they are desperate and are looking for someone they end opening up for wrong people in their lives and end up being hurt or murdered.”

“To lovers out there … When you don’t like someone. You will find everything they do or say wrong, annoying, bad and offensive. Even if it is good, you will interpret it in a wrong way so that it looks bad, and you will see them being wrong and bad. When you like someone. You will find everything they say or do good. Even if it is wrong. You will justify it and defend it, because you don’t want to see them as bad people. That is why the ones you don’t like you mock, ridicule, expose, speak ill and make fun of. The ones you like you don’t. Sometimes people are not as good as we think they are. Sometimes people are not as bad as we see them. It is us who judge and make them that way . We create our own life about them, rather than observing and seeing what is right there. Maybe that is why we are not finding right partners. We had judged them wrong , without knowing them and giving them a chance.”

“We keep on saying Africa is cursed, because we are suffering , but Africa is not cursed . Africa is blessed with minerals, gold, diamond, coal, animals, cultural diversity , heritage, wildlife , nature and natural resources. It is the leaders we select that are cursed to Africa . It is because of them , people are suffering in Africa .”

“There are consequences of our action. Its good when people protest to deliver their message. If they can't be heard . The problem is they are creating opportunities for companies to invest in AI (Artificial Intelligent). Companies will want to buy robots in replacing people , because robots wont protest, sexual abuse someone , get sick, be racist or favor certain employees. . As an employee you are supposed to generate cost for the company not costing the company.”

“I think it is important for companies to invest in employee behavior training. They should teach their employees, ethics, manners, social media conducts, and how to behave. Everyone is looking for an opportunity to trend big or to be a hero in breaking news by complaining or getting a payout. One mistake, argument, misunderstanding, post or bad service can cause the company to close and shut down. Everyone should behave like a brand, or they are representing a brand to be successful.”

“Illegal immigrants are good for political parties because they vote for them. They also increase their number count in a party. They are good for business because they provide cheap labor. They are good for bad people because they are used as hitman since they can't be traced because they are not in the system. They are good for the above things but are bad for everyone and everything else. They are bad for any other country . You can’t have people you don’t know living in your country and you don’t even know where they come from and what are they capable of .”

“When they are stealing from us and enjoying the money they stole from us. They want to be as far away as they can be from us. When they are caught. They want to be so close to us as they can be. They want us to fight for them. They are not reminding us that they are one of our own.”