“Unfortunately, life doesn’t wait for you to get over your ex; it will carry on.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Sometimes I fall asleep to avoid the reality of what I am facing,”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Eternally place on hold
the voice that justifies
stories in your mind about inadequacy.
Make love with the voice
that attributes all the logic under the sun
as to why you are adequate.
Hold on to it, allow it to whisper sweetness in your ear.
Abide with it, believe it.
Discontinue ripping yourself to shreds.
Quit admitting blasphemous utterances
about yourself in your dwelling.”
Source: The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love
“I had no idea where I was headed, but I wasn’t returning back to the hell I had so comfortably existed in. I was uncomfortable, and I was alright with it.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“There is no turning back when you devote yourself to making every fundamental transformation achievable in your life.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“You can only get away with being guided by your restrictions for so long until the universe intervenes and seize everything you’re utilizing to shield yourself from evolving. When the time is up, the universe doesn’t propose room for negotiation, where your life’s decisions are informed by your fears. Often, when the universe steps in, it leaves you with nothing to persuade yourself to remain the same”
“Often, deceitful and unfaithful individuals seem to deny those they have claimed to love any form of clarity.
You are left hanging, often having to fend for yourself on where the truth lies. It seems they operate under the assumption that those in their lives will eventually figure a way out, that they will somehow read other people’s minds and know where they stand.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“What I don’t realize is that I am battling with pain. I have not yet found a way to navigate my way around it. It’s just there, living in my mind and heart. I don’t know what to do with pain, and I keep talking about it, hoping it leaves someday.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“It may feel terrifying to experience the shame and fear of rejection, but it is also a liberating moment. It is a moment where you allow yourself to feel every inch of pain that you avoided by building these crumbling walls. It’s the pain we were supposed to feel and let go, finally leaving our bodies.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“I combed through my body, my mind, searching for any residual remains of heartbreaking memories, making peace with them, and often forgiving myself for the role I played. I emptied myself of pain and welcomed new love. I painted it away, I walked it away, I hiked it away, I sang it away, I traveled it away, and I lived my life discovering every reason to pour love within myself. I did everything I could to unclog every inch of pain that may have been left in my body and in my mind.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“The dance floor of love
welcomes the unquestionable,
It welcomes the prepared,
It welcomes the deliberate.
The dance floor of love expands the ground to tear apart suspicion.
The dance floor of love expands the ground to demonstrate what the absence of doubt looks like.
The dance floor of love, in all its segments, never makes an opening for nervousness, mistrust, inconsistency, and hesitation.
Reject the invitation to a dance floor loaded with unpreparedness and anticipation.
Love is forever specific,
always ready, and never at the mercy of indecision.”
Source: The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love
“This is my moment, I own it, and I have done the unthinkable, something I never knew I was capable of, which is showing up for myself.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“It is alluring to interrogate my choices, but maybe the alternatives aren’t that expansive to select from. Perhaps fellows, in their absoluteness, are just despicable individuals.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“The effort you put into repairing and contending in the relationships, turn that around into yourself and begin asking yourself: “why do I find it okay to be mistreated.?”. “Why am I so comfortable with being discarded like I don’t matter?” “Why do I find it okay to suffer for love?” These questions will lead you to a place that may frighten you.”
Excerpt From: Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali. “From Seeking to Radiating Love”. Apple Books.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“You will certainly discover, along the journey, that all along you were undoubtedly meritorious and worthy.”
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“I am proceeding to return to my authentic self, except this time around I will maintain more reasonable edges in position and a heightened self-regard.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“But I have now realized how miserable I am when I am around him, and it has forced me to look into myself and find the parts of me that are so comfortable being around someone who makes me sad.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“You can only get away with being guided by your restrictions for so long until the universe intervenes and seize everything you’re utilizing to shield yourself from evolving.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“but most days, I feel grateful that life offered me a chance to choose between living in misery and finding inner peace, and I chose the latter.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“When I constantly beg someone to treat me right, love and respect me, I am projecting the kind of love I wish to receive and know I deserve, but I have somehow allowed my limitations to inform me that I need to crawl on my knees, appealing for this love.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Sometimes, what they teach you is absurd, and if you don’t challenge it, you negligently make flawed decisions in life. And this is particularly towards girl children. When your mama taught you to pray when your partner is abusing and mistreating you, her decision was informed from her own flawed self-esteem.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“The sad thing about staying with a man you don’t trust is that it turns you into a maniac.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Sometimes as I cry, I stop and start laughing at myself for the number of tears I shed for a man I met at a funeral. Who falls in love at a funeral?”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Being a child from outside, caregivers aren’t invested in your emotional development as much. They assume that having a roof over your head and food is enough. You can’t get away with being honest in these kinds of conversations without someone attempting to throw in some positivity and gratitude. But it never is about that; children need their emotional needs watered. And openly discussing this is where we begin to rectify the past.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Your soul awakens,
at the command of your voice.
Command it back to life,
Command it back to love,
Command it back to joy.
Return to the home
you have treated
as a foreign land.
Return back to yourself.”
Source: The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love
“Back then, I didn’t realize his willingness to remain harmful, that the desire to cause harm was a choice. Each time life presented him with an alternative to protect or hurt, he chose the latter without fail. He showed up intentionally to cause emotional harm, and that was who he was. He was a man who recklessly treated me, and I had no right to doubt his abilities.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Shake off the heavy weight of what's finished
from your shoulders.
Throw away the hot coals in your hands.
Delight in new beginnings,
Delight in new possibilities,
Delight in the new opportunities to create.
Let the unexplored part of you come to life,
it always turns out better than before”
Source: The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love
“Ryan was a man who never did anything from an altruistic place in his heart. Everything he did was always to serve a specific purpose.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Until you feel sick of the presence of emotionally detached men and begging them to do right by you, they keep camping in your yard, offering you silent treatments each time a conflict arises.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“My self-esteem was on the floor. I often stepped on it, so it didn’t show up, and it rewarded me generously with men who were incapable of treating me better.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Things should always be done their way, no matter how brilliant your ideas may be”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“When you encounter certain things, shame may overwhelm you to a point where even admitting to yourself that you're under unbearable conditions becomes so hard”
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“If they mention your achievements, it seems they assume it steals the limelight that they so desperately crave”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Perhaps the uproar and the tantrum were the realization of the lack of control she had on the outcome of other team members' performance, that despite her desire to only be the one recognized, other team leads were comfortable praising their teammates.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“The majority of the organizations assume that highly experienced individuals in certain areas, perhaps people with over 26 years' worth of work experience in the same company in specific expertise, make for great managers. Many organizations are being led by individuals who have been within the company for a significant number of years”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“This, I noticed, has left a lot of teams with high resignations because having experience in specific areas doesn't necessarily mean one has people's skills.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Leadership is about transforming people. It is about recognizing the power you have and opt to use it for the greater good of the transformation of people within the team.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“that I didn't need to suffer to succeed, and a successful career didn't mean compromising my mental health.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“In advertising, marketing companies package their campaigns so well that sometimes you end up buying a product you don’t necessarily need as a consumer. And I think it is the same for men.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“Men have been packaged by society so well as elusive and mysterious that if you score one for yourself, you are suddenly deemed worthy of respect. This form of advertising has aided men for years, with women placing their best foot forward to present themselves to be found worthy of a man’s approval.”
Source: From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
“it became clearer that if there was any doubt in my mind about leaving my job, it had to be set aside.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“. There were also multiple ways of earning an income that didn't pose a threat to my well-being. But there weren't various options to choose from when it came to life. I simply had one life, and it was up to me to create great experiences for myself. I”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“It is hard to function as a human being in spaces where all the focus is on what you do wrong than what you get right.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“The issue with people-pleasing is that you gain nothing from it. You are constantly giving and overextending yourself to people who wouldn't do the same for you. These connections thrive well between parties that lack boundaries. The takers, who don't know when to stop taking, and the givers, who don't know when to stop giving”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Corporate culture has no room for your work speaking for itself”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Toxic management style grooms you into being a cooperating subordinate.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Due to the disbelief from the beginning, you don't realize that you are subjected to unbearable working conditions. There is also shame attached to it that if you quit, you suddenly appear to be weak.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Now, many folks who are suddenly handed leadership positions and lack people skills are the ones whose power becomes a tool to destroy the workplace and the people.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“Leadership is about transforming people. It is about recognizing the power you have and opt to use it for the greater good of the transformation of people within the team. Now, many folks who are suddenly handed leadership positions and lack people skills are the ones whose power becomes a tool to destroy the workplace and the people.
For some, it becomes a means to control people and ensure that those beneath them feel the power they now have”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."
“I had, in the past, heard stories about people walking dead inside, and now I was living on the same page. I felt dead on the inside and still didn't want to make things better for myself.”
Source: Sometimes it's your workplace: "A toxic workplace doesn't end at the office ,it follows you into every part of your life."