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Hope Edelman is an American author born on June 17, 1964. Her works primarily focus on women's issues, particularly discussions about motherhood and feminine identity. Edelman is known for her in-depth research and moving narratives, with her books having a wide-reaching impact among women.

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“This is a reactionary rage, often fueled by a sense of deprivation and a belief the world owes something to the daughter who lost her mother too young. But underneath it is usually a deep anger toward the mother herself.”

Mother Loss Grief Daughter Anger Rage Abandonment Mothers And Daughters Deprivation Motherless Daughter

Book:Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

Source: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

“The mother who abandoned her child or took her own life leaves a daughter with the most direct access route to anger--she left me--but even the mother who falls ill and dies can be an object of blame.”

Death Grief Anger Blame Suicide Abandonment Motherless Daughters Suicide Survivors

Book:Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

Source: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

“Witnessing a mother's slow physical decline can be the equivalent of of experiencing long-term trauma. The daughter's feelings of helplessness, anger, and fear persist. And persist. And persist. She may alternate between wanting to protect her mother and resenting her, an advance-and-retreat dance of identification and rejection than can span years.”

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Author:Hope Edelman

“Even though we knew she was going to die eventually, when it happened it was still a terrible, rude shock. I thought I was prepared, but when it happened I fell apart. That's when I realized I'd been hanging on to the hope, however slim, that as long as she was alive she might somehow get better.”

Death Loss Grief Healing Resilience Parents Mothers Daughters

Book:Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

Source: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

“It's hard to understand how we can harbor negative feelings toward someone we love when the two appear to sit at such competing ends of the spectrum. But negative emotion does, which is why even daughters of abusive mothers need to mourn the loss.”

Love Death Hate Grief Abuse Mourning Motherless Daughters Abadonment Negativiry

Book:Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

Source: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

“When a daughter loses a mother, the intervals between grief responses lengthen over time, but her longing never disappears. It always hovers at the edge of her awareness, prepared to surface at any time, in any place, in the least expected ways.”

Way Mother Loses Grief Awareness Daughter Longing Prepared Response Edges Surface Disappear Expected Intervals

Book:Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss, 20th Anniversary Edition

Source: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss, 20th Anniversary Edition

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Born: June 17, 1964
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