“Remember the many compartments of the heart, the seed of what is possible. So much of who we are is defined by the places we hold for each other. For it is not our ingenuity that sets us apart, but our capacity for love, the possibility our way will be lit by grace. Our hearts prisms, chiseling out the colors of pure light.” KindnessCaringLeadership CharacteristicsConnectedness Book:Getting What You Want: 2How to Reach Agreement and Resolve Conflict Every Time Source: Getting What You Want: 2How to Reach Agreement and Resolve Conflict Every Time
“Try This Counterintuitive Way To Be Well-Liked: One of the biggest misconceptions about connecting is seeking, first, to be liked. In fact, the counterintuitive way to get someone to like you is in knowing this core truth: If they like the way they feel when around you, they will like you. In fact, they will project onto you the character traits they most like in others, even if you have not yet exhibited them. Conversely, if they do not like the way they act when around you, they will instinctively blame you for it, regardless of the true reason. They will project onto you some of the qualities they most dislike in others. What's worse, they will go out of their way to prove they are right, even in ways that damage their reputation as well as yours.” ConnectednessCharacteristics Of LeadershipWell Liked Book:Mutuality Matters More Living a Happy, Meaningful and Satisfying Life With Others Source: Mutuality Matters More Living a Happy, Meaningful and Satisfying Life With Others