“I know it's not clothes that make women beautiful or otherwise, nor beauty care, nor expensive creams, nor the distinction of costliness of their finery. I know the problem lies elsewhere.” Women Book:The Lover Source: The Lover
“I already know a thing or two. I know it’s not clothes that make women beautiful or otherwise, nor beauty care, nor expensive creams, nor the distinction or costliness of their finery. I know the problem lies elsewhere. I don’t know where. I only know it isn’t where women think. I look at the women in the streets of Saigon, and up-country. Some of them are very beautiful, very white, they take enormous care of their beauty here, especially up-country. They don’t do anything, just save themselves up, save themselves up for Europe, for lovers, holidays in Italy, the long six-months’ leaves every three years, when at last they’ll be able to talk about what it’s like here, this peculiar colonial existence, the marvellous domestic service provided by the houseboys, the vegetation, the dances, the white villas, big enough to get lost in, occupied by officials in distant outposts. They wait, these women. They dress just for the sake of dressing. They look at themselves. In the shade of their villas, they look at themselves for later on, they dream of romance, they already have huge wardrobes full of more dresses than they know what to do with, added together one by one like time, like the long days of waiting. Some of them go mad. Some are deserted for a young maid who keeps her mouth shut. Ditched. You can hear the word hit them, hear the sound of the blow. Some kill themselves.” WomenBeautyFeminismFranceSaigonColonial FranceColonial VietnamFrench Indochina Book:The Lover Source: The Lover
“A woman's work, from the time she gets up to the time she goes to bed, is as hard as a day at war, worse than a man's working day. ... To men, women's work was like the rain-bringing clouds, or the rain itself. The task involved was carried out every day as regularly as sleep. So men were happy - men in the Middle Ages, men at the time of the Revolution, and men in 1986: everything in the garden was lovely.” MenWarHardAgeWomenSleepMiddleRevolutionInvolvedBedRainGardenTasksCloudsLovelyGet UpInequalitySexismMiddle AgesMen WomenHappy Man Author:Marguerite Duras
“One must talk. That's how it is. One must.” WomenConversation Book:The Vice-Consul Source: The Vice-Consul
“It's only women who are not really quite women at all, frivolous women who have no idea, who neglect repairs.” IdeasWomenNo IdeaNeglectFrivolous Book:Practicalities Source: Practicalities