“Any intense relationship, be it of love or hate, displaces you from your body-mind. Everything becomes about that person. When they are gone, you feel lost.” LoveLifePainSpiritualityRelationshipsSeparation Author:Shunya
“If you want to keep your social circle clean, don't hesitate to say 'No'. Those who don't understand your 'No' don't deserve your 'Yes'.” LifeReligionSpiritualityRelationshipsSocietyNoYesPhiloshophySocial Circle Author:Shunya
“Things that are too perfect for us don't attract us. They are like a slippery floor having no friction at all. We desire some friction... some flaws... something to work upon.” LoveSexRelationshipsPerfectionAttractionFlaws Author:Shunya
“Let your pain be so deep and wide that rivers of good fortune start flowing towards it.” LifePainSpiritualityRelationshipsHurtFailure Author:Shunya
“If you are arguing with somebody, the root of that argument lies in an inner wound that person gave you. You can’t show that wound because of the fear of being judged or labelled. So, you create an outer wound at some small thing and start arguing in the hope of rubbing some ice to your inner wound. This leads to more wounds - inner and outer.” LoveMindSoulPainPeaceRelationshipsHurtPsychology Author:Shunya
“Being able to forget something is no less than a superpower. You can't forget by trying to forget. Instead, switch to the higher perspective as often as possible. Wonder about the mysteries of universe.” PainUniverseRelationshipsHurtForgivenessTraumaForgetfulness Author:Shunya
“There was a time when you could drink water directly from lakes and rivers. Now you've to filter it. Same with people. You will always get dirt while dealing with people. You have to install a filter in your head.” LifeWisdomRealityLife LessonsRelationships Author:Shunya
“Looking from a distance, we find something attractive and excitedly commit to it. When we come near, we find it unbearable. Then we have to continue with it because we have already committed to it. Everything in Maya (Time-Space) is like that. You current status in life is something your younger self would find very attractive. It looked exciting from the distance of Time. Now it’s not.” LifeWisdomRealityTruthRelationshipsIllusionCommitment Author:Shunya
“We fall in mad love and mad hatred with our fantasies, not with real people. No real person deserves mad love and mad hatred.” LoveLifeWisdomHateSpiritualityRelationshipsHatred Author:Shunya
“When a fruit becomes ripe and separates from the tree, that is a proper ending of relationship. But human relationships rarely have such ending. That’s why there is always an urge to re-start the relationship, just to have a proper ending.” LoveMindHateRelationshipsPsychologyHeartbreakBreak Up Author:Shunya
“If and when they change, I will change my opinion about them." No. If you want them to change, first you have to soften your opinions about them.” LifePhilosophySpiritualityPeaceRelationshipsCompassionAlchemy Author:Shunya
“Anything that occupies your mind is your occupation. For some people quarreling is an occupation. They fear losing it more than a job-goer fears losing job. Because emptiness of mind is scarier than emptiness of stomach.” SpiritualityPeaceRelationshipsSilencePsychologyBuddhismSolitudeMental HealthZenNoise Author:Shunya
“You were a bare rock. Someone hammered and took a piece out of you. You can either cry about it or let me chisel some more pieces out of you and sculpt you into a divine form.” SpiritualityPeaceRelationshipsHeartbreak Author:Shunya
“Cooking food creates some waste in kitchen. Eating it creates waste in body. Every action in life creates waste. Keep disposing it off. Holding onto it will make you sick.” LifeWisdomLife LessonsPeaceRelationships Author:Shunya
“A relationship in itself is a living being. A cat doesn't live as long as a tortoise. The utopian idea that all relationships should last a human lifetime has created so much mental pain and sickness in society.” RelationshipsMarriagePsychologyHeartbreakMental Health Author:Shunya